Saturday, November 27, 2021

Sometimes people leave you

Confession: I'm not a big fan of Sondheim musicals. Guess I'm just not sophisticated enough. But being a theatre kid, his music has been all around me, starting my freshman year at university - I was even in a Sondheim review at WKU. And I do love Into the Woods except for the song, "Into the Woods." 

When I went to the movie of Into the Woods, I was snickering after the movie started and I heard someone behind me whispering, "IS THIS A MUSICAL?!?" No one walked out, so that's impressive. 

I was enjoying the movie - just a nice way to spend the day after Christmas. And it got to the Baker's Wife singing, "Sometimes people leave you" and WHAM, out of the blue, I think I made a noise as I completely and suddenly burst into tears. Whew - I still get chills thinking about it. I had to wait until all the credits were over so that I was pulled together enough to leave the theater. 

Whether I'm a big fan or not, I am absolutely in awe of his creativity, talent, influence and incredible output, and he is part of the soundtrack of my life. Very sad to see him go.

Friday, November 26, 2021

Thanksgiving Day 2021

8 a.m.: Create a Facebook album for 22 memes that I think are hilarious and need to be shared. Responses are many and positive. 

10:30 a.m.: Walk the dogs. 

11 a.m.: Make deviled eggs for the first time. Take a photo to show just how serious I am about this endeavor. 


Finish. Eat one broken egg to ensure I've done it all properly, share on egg with Stefan so he's not left out, chill the rest. 

noon: Put turkey in oven, clean kitchen, listen to Alice's Restaurant twice, singing along to the chorus every time. 

2 p.m. Sautee green beans in chopped garlic and onions. 

2:30 p.m. Prepare green bean casserole to bake

3:15 p.m. Take turkey out of oven, put in green bean casserole, begin chaos of trying to steam cauliflower, boil potatoes, make gravy and cook stuffing, all at the same time. 

4:15 p.m. Somehow serve everything on time, at the same time

Food on the table: Turkey, gravy, stuffing, green bean casserole, mashed potatoes with mashed cauliflower snuck in, deviled eggs and champagne. Meal was followed by pecan pie (which I did NOT make myself). 

Afterwards, put everything away in tupperware, fill dishwasher and press "start", boil turkey carcass to make broth and watch half of part one of Get Back. Collapse into bed at 9:30. 

So much to be thankful for: a beautiful, stable, peaceful home with someone I love. A table with an abundance of delicious food, on ceramic plates made in Stefan's hometown, Höhr-Grenzhausen, Germany, on placements from Central America, on a table cloth from Kandahar, Afghanistan. We're all connected whether we want to admit it or not. 

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. 

Wednesday, November 17, 2021

What it's like in Afghanistan now

A woman in Afghanistan I'm going to call "W--" has extensive connections with a USA NGO and, therefore, she must get out of Afghanistan. W-- is trying to get the rest of her family out as well. Here's what happened to W--’s husband and one of her daughters when they went to the passport office in Kabul, as told to me by someone affiliated with that NGO: 

A long-time family friend of W--'s family said he had a friend at the passport office that might be able to help get W-'s family passports, which some in her family do not already have. W--'s husband and B-- (female), a dear family friend, and B--'s father all went together to the passport office to see what they could find out.

There were several different lines at the Kabul passport office: one for people who needed a passport for getting medical care in another country, one for those who were renewing their passport, one for those who have already applied, and one for those who were applying for a new passport. B--, her father and W--'s husband were in this line.

Two Taliban singled the three out in the line - they approached the three and asked them several questions, including if they had documents or cell phones with them. They hadn’t brought anything with them - they were in line just to talk with the friend and see what they needed to do. When the three said they didn’t have any documents or phones with them, the Taliban took the three out of line and put them in the back of a covered truck/van. They put hoods on them so they couldn’t see where they were going and bound their hands in something metal - handcuffs or chains, they aren't sure.

One of their cousins happened to be at the passport office at the same time, standing in the line for people who had already applied for a passport. He saw what happened and called W-- immediately, so she would know what was happening.

The Taliban took the three to an unknown location and put them in a small room. They aggressively questioned W--'s husband about why he was with B-- when he wasn’t a relative. They beat W--'s husband badly.  B-- told the Taliban they had know this man for many years and he is like a family member. She asked them not to hurt her father because he has a heart condition. They hit her father anyway, on his shoulder and upper arm with an electrical metal cord. The beating left marks on his arm. They also beat B--, apparently on her back. B-- later said the beatings of B-- and her father weren’t “too bad" but W-'s husband was beaten badly. 

(stunned to hear a beating being described as "not too bad.")

After 18 hours, the Taliban let the three go, probably because they had no proof against them for whatever it was they wanted to accuse them of. 

The three went to W--'s empty in-laws house so they wouldn’t be at their actual home in case the Taliban followed them. The Taliban did, indeed, follow them to the home and entered the house asking where the rest of the family was. B-- didn’t know and said so.

Why were B--, her father and the friend singled out to be questioned and taken away? B-- said it seemed like the Taliban knew something about the family, but they didn’t accuse them of anything specific. The family has all been repeatedly told to hide all of their documents that show one of their family member's connection to the U.S. in a place no one can find, and they have done so.

While B-- was in custody, her husband took their three young daughters to his parents’ house and went to look for B--. He hasn’t resurfaced so they don’t know where he is. 

W-- and her family will return to their home in the next day or two. No one knows what will happen now. 

Monday, November 15, 2021

Alexi Lalas doesn't take the bait

I think Alexi actually means it. 


I will never be this good of a person when dealing with a troll. 

Tuesday, November 2, 2021

Congrats on your success

If you have ever intended to hurt my feelings, and you made an effort to do so, just FYI, mission accomplished.